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Alexander’s Birthday during Songkran —water fights, hug connections, Buddhist customs.

April 15th 2019

Today my only child turns 29!!! It’s so wonderful to be in Bangkok, Thailand to celebrate Alexander’s birthday with him this year. His girlfriend, Benz and my husband, Mark together with Alexander and I had a full day planned. In addition, it’s the Thai New Year which is a 4 day long National holiday here!

Last night we ventured out to the hot spot of Bangkok to participate in the massive water fight occurring in Silom area. The entire 5km street is a water combat zone where locals and tourists don super soakers, hoses, enormous buckets of icy or warm water and happily soak any and all people!!!

We purchased our mini water guns, bought water for 5 or 10 Baht depending on the size of the water canister, and headed into the masses! It was tons of fun and getting drenched felt fabulous after suffering the 40 degree temperatures.

It was a playful time for all and brought out a new side of our personalities 🥴😉

This morning Alexander and Benz stopped by our hotel to open their cards and gifts, then we were off to meet Benz’s mother for the first time!

Although we do not share a mutual language, culture, or religion… we shared our lunch together and met for the first time. After eating together I had Benz translate whether it might be appropriate for me to give her mom a hug.

Hugs really do transcend language, religious, or cultural barriers and as we hugged for several long minutes we established a connection and understanding that touched my heart deeply and left tears in more than just my eyes…

Our next adventure was to drive to วัดกระทุ่มเสือปลา Wat Krathum Suea Pla which is the Wat (Temple) where Benz and her mother regularly attend. Benz was going to introduce us all to traditional Thai Buddhist customs practiced during Songkran.

We learned about our Buddha for the day of the week we were born. We bought baskets of food and items (like umbrellas) to present to the monk after chanting sessions ended. We poured water from kettles into cups during the ceremony. We lit candles, poured oil, lit incense, placed flowers, and attached small gold foils on the Buddhas.

There were so many different ways to show appreciation and each different type of blessing also required (suggested) a monetary contribution. Benz also explained the story of Buddha and answered many of our questions. I created a slide show video showing the story of our day… from our arrival at Wat Krathum Suea Pla to our departure after we experienced more icy water down our backs and people applied white powder to our faces for Songkran!

Learning about Thai Buddhist Customs during Songkran

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Bangkok—Preparation for Songkran!

April 12th and 13th, 2019

Benz joins our group! We are incredibly grateful that due to the Thai National Songkran holiday, my son’s girlfriend has now joined us. She is both Buddhist and Thai so we benefit from her positive disposition, translating skills, explanation of Thai culture, and knowledge of the Buddhist traditions and beliefs. Welcome Benz! 😘

Benz and I—Ancient City after getting soaked!

While many Thai people travel to their home provinces to be with family and celebrate Buddhist tradition during Songkran, the Thai New Year also marks a massive commercial venture where tourists and locals experience a 3 + day window of opportunity to dress up and don massive super soakers (or squirt guns), or even buckets of ice water, and soak strangers! We had water thrown or squirted at us in multiple locations from April 12th to April 15th! (There will be blog posts following this one profiling more water action).

Preparing for Songkran

The first meal shared together with Benz was at MK in Union mall. The procedure is that you order your ingredients for your soup using your touch screen at the booth. The huge pot is ready for action sitting on your cooking surface in the center of your table. You select the veggies, meats, and options you desire for your collaborative soup creation.

At MK making a huge soup!

Soon after servers start delivering bowls and plates to your booth. You place the ingredients in the bowling water … and create your collaborative soup.

The servers seemed quite shocked by the amount of meat Benz and Alexander ordered!! But it was all eaten 😉. Mark and I were introduced to a new veggie tonight—morning glory. Back in Canada I pull out these weeds… here it is a delectable green veggie. Is it the same species I wonder?

Learning about water on Buddha ceremony

After dinner Benz introduced us to the first of many Songkran traditions practiced over Thai New Year. There are different statues of Buddha representing each day of the week. You conduct your water or oil ceremony with the Buddha which matches the day of the week you were born on. As Mark and I were each born on a Friday … We carried out our ceremony on the same Buddha figure who was standing up with hands in a praying position.

Different poses of Buddha

The Songkran Festival is a period when the Thai people cleanse and pour water mixed with Thai fragrance on Buddha images. We saw these Buddha images located in many locations from shopping malls, to hotel lobbies and gas stations. This process is believed to bring good luck to them.

During the Songkran festival we visited several Wats (temples) and were introduced to many aspects of this religious festival in addition to participating in the city water fights!

We also experimented with Thai meals. One local restaurant near our accommodation had a lengthy and intriguing menu. It also had this unusual large, playful fish in an aquarium. After researching I discovered it was a flower horn fish. The fish was at least 25 cm long and moved following your finger. It even swam upside down! I couldn’t resist creating this animation. 🥴

GIF of a Flower Horn Fish

The next few blog posts will contain lots of photos about Songkran in Bangkok!